Who Loved Those Unloved, Fed Those Who Hungered, Healed those with Sickness BIG CITY LIFE The first time I lived near a big city was when I was 21, it was Portland Oregon.  I remember driving through the city and seeing men wearing dirty clothes, pushing shopping carts full of belongings.  Some of them muttered foul things under their breath.  Some were not so polite or quiet with their mutterings.